Hello all. I really can handle the cyber-bullying, but I am not and never will be a gay-hater or homophobic. I love all of my brothers and sisters in the gay community. Since starting this blog, many men have written to me that they are unhappy with their homosexuality. All I am trying to do is present an alternative. I am always happy to respond to well thought-out comments, that do not include vulgarities. I wish you all the best and a Blessed New Year.